Warrior Mother
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Warrior Mother: Fierce Love, Unbearable Loss, and Rituals that Heal

This is the true story of a mother’s fierce love and determination, and her willingness to go outside the bounds of the ordinary when two of her three adult children are diagnosed with life-threatening disease.

At a dance workshop, held to address the threat of the pandemic AIDS, the author admits she doesn’t know how to be the mother to her gay son. With the help of women in her spirituality group, she learns to say yes to what life is asking of her son, and of her, as his mother.

The author’s best friend, dying of breast cancer, asks the author to accompany her through what turns out to be, fourteen days of her dying, ironically preparing this mother for what lie ahead with her own children.

Five years later, the author and her family confront again, a life and death circumstance – her 40-year-old daughter’s diagnosis of breast cancer. When the customary treatments fail, her daughter decides on a bone marrow transplant and the author visits a healer in Brazil on her behalf. Experience as a professional social worker and family therapist doesn’t always help the author to cope, but her familiarity with improvisational song, dance, and storytelling, and women’s spirituality rituals carry her through.

The book follows the family through memorials and celebrations of lives well lived, the impact of grief on those left behind, and the rituals that help them heal.

HOW TO

Work with Me

CONSULTING

I help organizations with students, clients and employees learn the skill of grieving well based on my own experience, as a social worker and having helped many people find the gift hiding behind their grief. This work begins with a single conversation.

CARE-GIVING ONLINE GROUP

I host a LIVE, and weekly, online self-care group for caregivers to support the amazing individuals working with loss daily. Here you gain access to me, my principles and exercises to take care of yourself, while caring for others.

 

SPECIAL EVENT SPEAKER

I customize every presentation, tapping into my experience as an improv artist, author and grief consultant. For group sizes of 25-10,000, I bring powerful topics to life whether it’s for an hour, half-day, full-day or multi-day experiences. Ask me for details!

WORKSHOPS

When organizations deal with loss, I develop workshops after interviewing representatives from the organization to insure the experience will be relevant to their members and the goals of the organization. I guarantee a lively, thought-provoking and transformational workshop.

SHEILA’S CLIENTS AND COLLABORATORS HAVE BEEN

Experienced Intimacy

Vulnerability

Experienced intimacy in community – able to make myself vulnerable.

Hard Conversations

Made Easier

So grateful to find ways that make hard conversations easier.

Received Support

Multiple Issues

Received support while dealing with aging, care-giving, and death in my family.

Got ‘Coolness’ Credits

Loved It

Doing this improvisational work I got some credit for “coolness” from my adult children and grandchildren.

Grace Under Pressure

An Education

Finally learned how to receive gracefully, give wholly and live fully. Thank you.

TOUGH INTO TRIUMPH

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